Don’t be a copy

I have to say the biggest hurdle being married which I didn’t see coming was this idea of comparing myself to Michael’s past.  I tried not to think about it, but somehow it always came up.  We all come into a relationship with baggage – I have baggage and I also had a lot of … More Don’t be a copy

I love dating!

In movies you see the guy plan the date.  They shower the young lady with gifts, dinner, and some fun activity.  After you get married some people forget to date their spouse.  I knew early on I was wanting to continue to date Michael and plan it in our calendar each week.  I heard a … More I love dating!


New Year’s brings a season of freshness.  For some reason, the beginning of a new year allows for us to dream again.  That is very much the case with me.  With that my focus I sought after resources that would lead me to my goal. Trust me this was a bit overwhelming.  When I go … More Gratitude


Relationships are tough, they are ever changing.  They can blossom to wonderful pieces of work or they can die.  Every relationship has moments of highs, lows, and sometimes rocky.  I have experienced a lot of them and learned a lot along the way. Finding our tribe, squad, or whatever you may call it is unique … More #Tribe


We will never be at a place in our walk with Jesus that is perfect.  It is just never going to happen.  Progress not perfection.  It’s a great MANTRA to have when you are needing to step out and stand up in trying something, anything, just moving is progress. My journey to serve our church … More Ministry

No Soliciting

My dear friends, an older couple married for 30 years in our church are currently taking classes to become counselors. They have already helped several couples who are engaged.They both told me that listening is the most important thing. People want to be heard. Sometimes, just having a thought said out loud with no interruption, will … More No Soliciting

There are moments my flesh is screaming, “NO, don’t do it.”  

Obedience defined by Merriam-Webster Dictionary – an act or instance of obeying This has been hard for me, I desire to be a Proverbs 31 wife, seeking God when things in life are not going the way I would like.  At times Michael seems to be my adversary, but in reality, he isn’t.  The enemy puts … More There are moments my flesh is screaming, “NO, don’t do it.”